Saturday, January 9, 2010
without doubt.
If you think some couple are perfect
its because they try to solve problems.
i believe it a test from God
To show how strong or weak
you are.
even if this relationship doesnt work out
you have to deal with the next
so might as well deal with this one.
Stronger is not ego or who wins the war.
What i mean is love,patient
and facing reality and deal with it
weaker means running away, ignoring
thinking problems might go away.
Things to avoid in a relationship
When fighting on the phone
1st mistake: talking
mabe talking doesnt works, try not talking..
Anger makes you say & do stupid things
give each other some space.
It usually works this way,
1st anger, 2nd the mind starts to ask Qs
3rd it plays good memories like a tape recorder
talk only when calm. not calm breath in and out type.
really calm.
2nd mistake: long term couples do is not talk.
After being happy,
dont forget to talk about what made
the problem start in the first place
or it will be worst the next time.
3rd mistake: small things but turn big.
eg:bring up past mistakes, you are worst,
you use to.
settle this problem first
then slowly on to the next.
its enough for 1 day.
4th mistake: swearing and cursing
it sucks to listen to words like this.
it will hurt the other party more and more
no one will like a cursing bf/ gf.
5th mistakes: i want my way!
If everyone wants their way the world goes hectic.
Compromise is the word. You both agree on something
you both like.
not "fine you want this, i also want this!" no eh.
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Love is suppose to be happy, that fuzzy feeling.
smile when you look at your love ones....
not tears and hatered.
If you both work together.
it save alot lot of trouble.
so if God give you a test
you know what to do .*wink
Luv, Nadia